Question by John James: My wife is bi curious and is open to experimenting with another girl or couple should we?
After a recent discussion with my wife, we talked about how the taboo of having sex with another couple and watching each other get pleased by someone else was a huge turn on. We have never done any of this before but we have had sex in front of friends and talked about her curiosities. She and I are both actively involved in giving oral to each other, anal sex with her, using toys, watching porn together, and role playing fantasies we each have like me acting like I'm someone else, or her playing the same role. She and I both get really turned on in the moment when comments are made like if I said I would really love to watch her going down on another girl or vice versa and it prompts later discussions on pursuing the interests. She told me the other day that she has always wanted to get with one of her really good friends and the idea of knowing her friend has been with other girls is a big turn on to her. I know she is serious about the experimenting because she has asked her if she would do it, but like any girl would react her friend said she's nuts. Where as my wife said, that is was her who was being weird and she wants to has sex with her. After playing with the idea we've both said it's an ultimate fantasy to see each other having sex with another person and using it to ultimate please each other, but are we veerin into troubled waters if we pursue this sort of thing? I know there are mixed responses, but if we set boundaries, that If we get her friend to agree to have sex with her and the only girl I have sex with is my wife and her friends only their for her pleasure can it go badly? I'm wanting to explore each others fantasies but in a sense where we are doing it for each other but neither of us want the negative repercussions if it doesn't go well. I've suggested next time we foreplay, she should close her eyes and pretend she is with her friend, and imagine that it is her friend pleasing her and we both agree it would be nice to do. Good ideas or no?
Best answer:
Answer by Ashley Jay
As long as you two are completely open and honest about what you expect, during & afterwards, I see no harm. You're both clearly on the same page as to what you want. Obviously you two have no problems communicating with each other, so I'm sure if you set your boundaries/rules, there wouldn't be a problem. Just make sure you talk out every little detail beforehand, so that nobody gets upset in the aftermath.
It's not like you guys are doing this to cheat on each other. You're doing it so you can both have a good time, and both get to participate in these fantasies. You're doing it for each other, not against each other; I think it will be fine. Go for it!
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